Preface January 2007   I wasn’t quite certain who was more in a state of shock, Ethan or me.  We had been at the local Y where John and I had been taking him for group swim lessons religiously since he was a toddler and this Saturday morning John had stayed back with Ethan’s two younger siblings, Charlie and Savanna.  It was after the Christmas break and we were back with a new class, beginning a new session.  Having proudly received the note at the end of the last sessionRead More